Parent
Preparation for Baptism
of
Infants and Younger Children
BAPTISM
makes us a child of God...
Through
Baptism, parents assume an awesome responsibility to teach their
child to love and to know about the God who created him/her. These lessons
begin with Baptism and continue all through the pre-school and growing
up years.
Parents
are the primary educators of their young children and are the first to
teach this child about God. This is an awesome responsibility and cannot
be taken lightly. When parents want to have their child baptized, the Laws
of our Church call for preparation or catechesis for this sacrament.
REQUIREMENTS:
In both of our parishes this takes the form of: 1) parents must be registered
within the parish for at least six months prior. It is assumed
that the parents are actively living out their own responsibilities as
practicing Catholics. If the parents are not married in the Church, this
is a good time to talk with the pastor or deacon about this matter. 2)
an interview with the pastor; 3) registration to gather needed
information; 4) a copy of the child's birth certificate; 5) a series
of four classes which must be completed prior to the baptism.
If
for some reason, these steps cannot be followed, then it maybe best to
postpone the Baptism until such time as the parents are ready. Call us
if you have questions or concerns.
One
of the ways that the faith communities of St. Joseph and St. Mary can support
families and help them pass on the faith is through the Parent Preparation
Classes. This program will help parents teach their child about our Catholic
faith, our customs and our traditions.
Families
are encouraged to attend the Parent Classes during pregnancy when life
is at a slower pace. Godparents and significant live-in family members
(ie: grandparents) are encouraged to attend these sessions and participate
in the Baptism celebration.
Only
certain dates are available to celebrate this Sacrament of Baptism during
the weekend liturgies. Please call the religious education office at St.
Joseph or St. Mary parish for the next available class and dates of baptism.
PROGRAM
COMPONENTS:
The
Core
Team consisting of members from both St. Mary and St. Joseph have been
specially trained for this ministry and to make the series of four presentations.
Session
1: The Faith Journey and the History of Baptism
Session
2: The Rite of Baptism and its Signs and Symbols
Session
3: Christian Parenting and Planning for Baptsim Rite
Session
4: Reunion Celebration of Families after Baptism
Each
session begins with a prayer and is followed by a video presentation and
discussion. Materials are provided for parents to reflect on between sessions.
The
fourth session follows the actual Baptism with the class participants sharing
their stories and reflections on their own recent experience
of the very meaningful Rite of Baptism.
GODPARENTS:
Choosing
a Godparent for your child is necessary. Questions to ask yourself are:
-
Does
this person know and practice their own faith commitment?
-
Will
this person be able to help us lead our child closer to God by being a
"good example"?
-
Is
this person a confirmed and practicing Catholic?
REQUIREMENTS:
1)
be a fully initiated Catholic;
2)
be registered and actively participating in their local faith community;
3)
If not a member of St. Mary or St. Joseph, then a Letter of Verification
from
their pastor will suffice.
Only
one Godparent is needed by Cannon Laws of our Church, but often two are
chosen.
It
is not just and honor but a serious responsibility to be a Godparent. A
Godparent cannot be a parent or spouse of the one being baptized.
If
Godparents are not registered and active members of either St. Mary or
St. Joseph, present Letter of Verification from their pastor,
one week prior to Baptsim. |